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**l00k** · May 17th, 2005, 10:17 PM

>so its fine if the the two were working really hard to make it work????

<font face="Times New Roman" size=4 color="Blue"><B>Yes, I think you can definitely make it work if you're willing to put in the effort. Who knows? Just because everyone here thinks it won't work based on personal experiences does not mean you will encounter the same experiences in your life. Maybe yours will work -- long distance relationships have worked for some people.

Personally, I would avoid it like the plague. I don't like the idea of it. I'm in a relationship for the touch and sexual aspect of it, along with the emotional support and understanding you get from being close to someone you love or care about. That's what a relationship is about. Removing the physical interaction and nonverbal communication from a relationship will put a great stress on it, no matter how much two people care about each other. If it's a long distance relationship for the time being, with plans in the immediate future of changing the living situation, then why not try it?

Good luck, and don't be afraid to give it a try and learn this lesson on your own. Who knows, maybe it will work out for you.

May 17th, 2005, 10:17 PM	#14 (permalink)
l00k Wang Miles offline Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: What's that coming over the hill? Posts: 1,903 Thanks given: 0 2 thanks in 2 posts Rep Power: 19	>so its fine if the the two were working really hard to make it work???? <font face="Times New Roman" size=4 color="Blue"><B>Yes, I think you can definitely make it work if you're willing to put in the effort. Who knows? Just because everyone here thinks it won't work based on personal experiences does not mean you will encounter the same experiences in your life. Maybe yours will work -- long distance relationships have worked for some people. Personally, I would avoid it like the plague. I don't like the idea of it. I'm in a relationship for the touch and sexual aspect of it, along with the emotional support and understanding you get from being close to someone you love or care about. That's what a relationship is about. Removing the physical interaction and nonverbal communication from a relationship will put a great stress on it, no matter how much two people care about each other. If it's a long distance relationship for the time being, with plans in the immediate future of changing the living situation, then why not try it? Good luck, and don't be afraid to give it a try and learn this lesson on your own. Who knows, maybe it will work out for you. __________________ Hate is baggage.