saruknight,
thanks for bringing up this subject!
the honest truth is that we all can say a lot about our own opinions, experiences and insights about long-distance relationships. but the decision as to whether this relationship you're currently in is worth your time, energy & expense is up to you. and, it's up to her. it's between the two of you.
it's been said that anything worthwhile is worth the work. that goes without saying. we're just a group of guys in a cyber-community giving our best possible counsel, but i trust you've asked your closest friends/confidants what you should do. maybe even your parents? (i know... some of you may be saying, "what?!? your parents?!?" that's right! as time goes by, i find myself saying that although my parents may not have understood what i was going through as far as details are concerned, they understood the ideas and they understood me because they knew me more than i gave them credit for... it's funny how much i've had to give them credit where i never really did before...)
now, what was i saying? oh, yeah... ask those closest to you. hopefully they'll give you an answer you need to hear versus an answer you want to hear...
in the end, it's up to you... and just because you decide today, doesn't mean that you can't still ask the same question a month from now... (does that makes sense?)
and now the floodgates of response/reaction open...
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