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So, you know how I was using a trainer man? well... can i see what you think?

So anyway, first of all he trained me and said I was doing awesomely and looking awesome and he was really proud to be my trainer... strange, but sweet right?

anyway, later on he sent me a message that said "nice piercings" (cause I have my nipples peirced) and I asked how he found out thinking a lady in the changeroom told him or something and he told me I let one slip!

#1 embarrasing!!!

#2 isnt it a bit unprofessional??

after that he told me he'd look at me more if I could... and asked if I had any more peircings :\

So anyway, after that I did try to hide at the gym a little (and wore a thousand tops) and he told me I was getting too slack in my workout. When I saw him today I was shaking doing legs and he told me that was appalling (but I always shake on legs?), doesnt everyone? I'm not that strong in them! And he said I can redeem myself next week and that's my last chance. He also said he'll need me to strip to a binkini /underwear to do a fat percentage (really? everyone else has been able to do it while I was fully clothed?) and yeah

so now I dont know what to do

am i seeing warning signs or is that stuff all ok to say? I dont feel very comfortable, in fact, I dont like him very much anymore! I really cant push myself any harder than I am, I'm always red faced and out of breath and I dont have a rest unless the machines I want are taking and I have to find another one.

I dont know, I really want to compete, and I really hate confrontations. Is it ok to tell this guy to get lost or will that just be me admitting that I cant train hard enough to compete?

Help!!!!