HELP please!!!!!!!!!1111

marc15yo · April 25th, 2007, 06:53 PM

I'm 15 years old in high school. my buddies and i used to be best friends but not anymore. rumors are going around my school and they know me well, all 4 of them make fun of me. 1) the skinny black guy(don't worry i'm black too) 2) the fat glasses boy and more but there not important. i fought the one with the glasses last friday and i kind of Won because he didn't put one scratch on me and i put him to the ground and he throwed some punches but missed all. but today they came up to me in school and said they were going to fight me agian. (Note: the last fight on friday was because i was mad that they were making fun of me and calling me a wimp) so we went and fought i pretty much got my ass kicked i got humiliated, i was recorded, i was stolen from (my psp), I had 2 fight both the skinny and the fat glasses one , and I really need help. this friday after tomorrow i'm going to fight the skinny one but this time i will have 3 firends with me. PLEASE, I DONT WANT TO BE THE WIMP HERE. I WANT TO FINNISH BOTH OF THEM QUICK AND GET MY PSP BACK THAT THEY STOLE. I NEED FIGHTING TIPS

**mooshue** · April 25th, 2007, 07:49 PM

im sorry you are dealing with this kind of stuff, teen years are supposed to be fun. Honestly, the way you get your psp back is to file a police report. If you keep getting more friends and fighting them then they are gonna get more friends and fight you again. This is how shit like the virginia tech shooting happends, everyone starts trying to show how hard they are and eventually when the only thing to do to be the bigger bully and idiot than the other guy is to bring out some stupid weapons and guns.
I hope you can control the situation and not get yourself or your real friends seriously injured or worse. Im 30 now and the stupid stuff i did in school was just not worth it most of the time. When you are older and have your own children and family becomes important instead of who has the best shoes youll understand what im trying to say a little better.

marc15yo · April 25th, 2007, 08:24 PM

I know what you mean but i just can't get out of this fight it's one of those situations where people make fun of you everyday make you feel like crap and
i can't take it. it's not going to go that far. it's just a regular finish him quick, i don't want to fight but i feel like a wimp and i know i'm not. they made fun of me while i was fighting called me a little b*** when i was on the ground, the most humiliating part was when they somehow got away with my stuff. i just need to find out how to do it fast in the future i will avoid all fights but this one i just can't

marc15yo · April 25th, 2007, 10:51 PM

never mind you are right it's not worth it

marc15yo · April 25th, 2007, 10:53 PM

i won't fight them only for big reasons Like if they hurt my sisters or if they have a knife pointing at me or if they harass my best friend

**ItalianStallion** · April 26th, 2007, 01:06 AM

unfortunalty people pick on other people n it sucks...im sorry but u just have to deal wit it...the people who pick on people r the ones that r too scared about themselves...they r the true losers n wimps..u dont think this is true because now ur the one bein picked on..but when ur older u will see that these people r the true losers..ur not a loser nor a wimp...dont fight back...fights happen u win u lose uwalk awy...but they stole sumtin report it..u kickin their ass wont get the psp back..its not a championship belt or nething...just walk awy next time the bitch at u...dont take it to heart..WHO do u care about? those r the people u listen to n care wat they have to say..not these punks who have nutin to do...why do u care what they have to say? im sorry ur in this situation but just get around it..u dont wanna be fightin every week just to prove sumtin..u fight if ur in trouble for ur life ..if people see u gettin picked on n u walk awy the people watchin wont think ur a wimp they will think ur a man n the otha kids look like idiots...sry if we dont give u the advice as where to strike first n how to punch..but us guys r here to help wit good advice...now if u eva wanna kno how to defend urself because sum1 is tryin to hurt u there r threads where people have stated a lot of good information to learn...go their n get familair wit it...dont go lookin for fights..but if it finds u try to get out..if not us the info u kno to defend urself

marc15yo · April 26th, 2007, 01:20 PM

i'll take your advice i guess i'll just have to let things go. i'm not a wimp so i'll walk away and this time with a smile because those kids are the wimps who pick on me.

**mooshue** · April 26th, 2007, 01:27 PM

good luck man, glad to hear you are being the bigger man. You should try and channel some of that rage or anger or whatever it is you are feeling from them being asses and use it in the gym. Workouts are unbelievable stress relievers, not to mention helping to pack on the muscle. You are coming up on the years of your life where it will be easiest to pack on the muscle, much moreso than us old natural guys

**TheManWhoCan** · April 26th, 2007, 01:39 PM

Ya that's a tough spot to be in. The best advice I can give is just to take up a martial art of some kind for future situations like this. I took up boxing because I was always the little kid and I wanted to learn how to pummel somebody. That was about 10 years ago and I've had to defend myself physically about 3 times. The rest is taken care of by attitude, words, or the lack of them.

If you can avoid fighting, then by all means avoid it. But if somebody is walking on you, defend yourself with greater force then the people who were attacking you. I don't advocate violence, but people respond to it. If you immediately stop the people who are trying to walk you in their tracks, it shows them you're not messing around. You don't care who they are, their attitude f****ng sucks and you don't want any part of it. It doesn't have to be a physical stopping, but words hurt man. They are throwing words at you and they think it's just words. There's no meaning behind them and I guarantee you they are oblivious as to what kind of damage words can cause somebody. If you give them a taste of their own medicine, it usually shuts them up. At least, that worked for me. Filing a report will get your PSP back. You could also talk to a guidence counciller about what to do. That's what they do. They help people in tough spots. Getting your PSP back this way could also be done more discreetly I think. They'll probably call the parents, tell them what happened, and the parents should punish their kid severely.

Like ItalianStallion said, there are a few other threads about fighting with great advice in them. Learning how to defend yourself is an absolute must. But once you learn how, you'll almost never need to do it.

Again, I don't advocate violence. I can't stress that enough. It's quite possible this thing will blow over in a couple of days if you don't keep feeding the fire. Stuff like this tends to go away.

**mooshue** · April 26th, 2007, 04:24 PM

I agree with most of your statement themanwhocan, until you got to the point where you said their parentsshould punish their kid severely. Now i agree that they "should" do that but i seriously dobut it would happen. Its not the good old days anymore where parents actually pay attention to their children or give them the good ass whippins we used to get when we messed up. This is probably part of the problem, when the whole era that everyone jumped on the non violent time out approach everything got all messed up. Kids dont get a nice proper punishment for anything they do anymore. Hell not even just kids, if an adult messed up huge they get off on pleas and good behavior or plead insanity and go to rehab instead of being put to death like they should.
I love my son more than anything on this planet but i do plan on whipping that ass when he messes up, and the worse he messes up, the harder he gets that belt.
Those kids parents who are doing the picking on are probably fat armchair quarterback nascar rooting screw ups who drive around in cars more expensive than their house wearing jewerly in their ears and necks instead of providing for their own.

**TheManWhoCan** · April 26th, 2007, 08:18 PM

Unfortunately, I think you're right about that part. The parents should punish them, but probably won't. It's just sad to imagine that no punishment would come out of beating a kid up and stealing his stuff.

KPCJH · June 20th, 2007, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by marc15yo

I'm 15 years old in high school. my buddies and i used to be best friends but not anymore. rumors are going around my school and they know me well, all 4 of them make fun of me. 1) the skinny black guy(don't worry i'm black too) 2) the fat glasses boy and more but there not important. i fought the one with the glasses last friday and i kind of Won because he didn't put one scratch on me and i put him to the ground and he throwed some punches but missed all. but today they came up to me in school and said they were going to fight me agian. (Note: the last fight on friday was because i was mad that they were making fun of me and calling me a wimp) so we went and fought i pretty much got my ass kicked i got humiliated, i was recorded, i was stolen from (my psp), I had 2 fight both the skinny and the fat glasses one , and I really need help. this friday after tomorrow i'm going to fight the skinny one but this time i will have 3 firends with me. PLEASE, I DONT WANT TO BE THE WIMP HERE. I WANT TO FINNISH BOTH OF THEM QUICK AND GET MY PSP BACK THAT THEY STOLE. I NEED FIGHTING TIPS

Once someone told me that I don't need any fighting skills. Just learn when they go up the stairs. Simply walk down the stairs and when their head at your knee level, kick them in the face. The fight is over. The other kids will be so scared of how viscious you are, they will not mess with you.