juggling two girls at once

merlin · December 22nd, 2005, 03:54 PM

anybody have any advice? it's seems to be really hard but fun

Tankdude1213 · December 22nd, 2005, 04:34 PM

like Serious relationships?

**mukey** · December 22nd, 2005, 11:59 PM

Don't get caught :/

inconsiderado · December 23rd, 2005, 12:30 AM

if anything bad happens, you brought it on yourself.

**sucher67** · December 23rd, 2005, 02:09 AM

Relationships can be difficult enough... why invite complications and drama? And, you have to ask: do the feelings of these women matter? Even if you stay distant and don't develop feelings, the majority of those who date are looking for a loving relationship. Women date you most likely because they think that you can provide that, and if you don't intend to provide that, they should know. I am not lecturing, just reminding that a little compassion goes a long way.

Will you suddenly decide to be honorable when you meet a woman whom you really want to be with? You might have a lot of explaining to do, and it most likely won't work. I suggest one at a time. No juggling.

**mavgrad99** · December 23rd, 2005, 02:25 AM

have you not seen the Seinfeld episode?

**Gman1524** · December 23rd, 2005, 06:05 PM

desi · December 31st, 2005, 05:50 PM

lol ur a Prick.... how can u hurt ppls feelings like that say they both love u... u jsut gonna end up hurting 1 or both and destroy dem mentally have some respect 4 ur self and control ur frigging sex hormones!!!!!!

Mencia · January 3rd, 2006, 12:32 AM

dude trust me, i'm doin that right now and at times it can get difficult and challenging. But just try your best not to get caught and all will be fine

**irish1416** · January 3rd, 2006, 01:16 AM

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Originally Posted by desi

lol ur a Prick.... how can u hurt ppls feelings like that say they both love u... u jsut gonna end up hurting 1 or both and destroy dem mentally have some respect 4 ur self and control ur frigging sex hormones!!!!!!

I agree- you're playing with fire on this one. Just remember that girls love to tell all their girlfriends about their relationships, and the girlfriends gossip to their girlfriends, and pretty soon you begin to realize that it is a pretty damn small world after all, as you discover that the two girls share a common aquaintance. And, when that happens, you've not only hurt and pissed off the two girls, but all of their girlfriends will mark you for that and you have instantly struck out with more girls than you can count.

In the end it's your life and your reputation; do as you will. Just be careful.

**biscuitman357** · January 4th, 2006, 12:31 AM

Two girls at once?

I have to go back to baseball philosophy.

You field a grounder, you could toss it to second and try to pull off a wild double play, or you can just go to first for the safe out.

I'd pick the safe out, since in modern times, you have to really be cautious about what people might have or could give you that would screw up your health.

And pragmatically, consider if a girl was juggling another guy and you, and she was having unprotected sex with both of you. I mean thats risking your life without you knowing the full consequences/choices every single time. And even if she was having protected sex, would you want to risk it? Herpes, the drip, etc. You are really put both of those women in that position if you think about it.

I would say just out of principle, for the health/karma aspect, you'd be better off sticking to one woman.

bucketheadtf · January 5th, 2006, 10:56 PM

if you can afford it, get two cell phones. its easy to get busted if you got a nosy GF who goes through your phone

**Justsomedude** · January 6th, 2006, 10:09 AM

I'd say stick with one. A buddy of mine is juggling six right now (it fluctuates. He usually has 2 on the go, but this is the most I've seen him handle), and let me tell you, he's always tired.

-JSD

**iba2dat** · January 8th, 2006, 05:13 PM

Good luck. Play with fire your gonna get burned.

austios · January 29th, 2006, 01:50 AM

dude... make a choice and end it with the other!!

whatever you do, no matter how good you are at hiding it... it will come back and bite your balls off!

I'm not speaking from experience, but I know a couple people who's been through it.

Eastwood95 · January 30th, 2006, 10:57 AM

Important for juggling, you cannot give your place of residence or work to both girls..........and never leave your cell phone around unlocked. You should also never put girls first names into your cell phone.....

HardGainer23 · January 30th, 2006, 11:50 AM

Well all i can say is that if you get caught. And the girls have a lot of friends then ur not gonna get any of their friends for a long time.

mistabinks · January 30th, 2006, 03:47 PM

I am definitely not a player or anything like that. I just usually seem to meet two girls at a time when I am single. I have never had this end well. I usually go from two girls to none lol.

Danny1976 · January 30th, 2006, 06:12 PM

just remember that now you have them both. if one or the other find out you will not have either. If that is worth it then keep it up.

**pliny_2001** · January 30th, 2006, 06:45 PM

I'm going to go against the tide of the posts here and say that as long as everyone involved knows that you aren't being exclusive, go for it.* If you're lying about your intentions, though -- you, sir, are a bastard.

*This is a pretty advanced dating maneuver, though. If you end up being possessive about one of your long-term one-night-stands/friend-with-benefits and drama ends up ensuing (and, let me assure you, the drama will ensue), it will probably be significantly easier for them to hook up with someone that will devastate you than vice versa. And statistics tell us that this is the weapon that will be employed.