My black book

**Carlos_Hathcock** · May 27th, 2007, 11:26 PM

I want you all to know that I deleted my black book, no easy fucks anymore, I don't remember their phone numbers, I had them all on speed dial, if they call me I'll slowly tell them to forget about me.

I'm taking my celibacy shit seriously, until the right one comes.

**ecrd** · May 29th, 2007, 11:26 AM

I just read your other thread on the subject and have to say "good for you!" It is a very personal subject, but actually making it somewhat public can help solidify things in your mind.

When I went away to college (late 80's) I immediately started sleeping around. Things went great for a few months until I met a gal that became a LTR. We dated for 2+ years. That relationship was the first time I had experienced sex as something other than a ONS. It was deeper, it had emotional weight, it was an experience to share with someone.

After we went our separate ways I decided to go back to my old "Meet 'em, mount 'em and move on" ways. That did not last very long though. After about the third or fourth one I realized I was no longer interested in playing games, in all the sh!t that goes along with that lifestyle.

From that point on there have been a total of two women in my life. One I dated for 18 months, the other one ended up becoming my wife. Personally I would not change a thing, not even the ONS. It gave me insight into the man I wanted to become.

Richard · May 30th, 2007, 05:42 PM

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Originally Posted by ecrd

I just read your other thread on the subject and have to say "good for you!" It is a very personal subject, but actually making it somewhat public can help solidify things in your mind.

When I went away to college (late 80's) I immediately started sleeping around. Things went great for a few months until I met a gal that became a LTR. We dated for 2+ years. That relationship was the first time I had experienced sex as something other than a ONS. It was deeper, it had emotional weight, it was an experience to share with someone.

After we went our separate ways I decided to go back to my old "Meet 'em, mount 'em and move on" ways. That did not last very long though. After about the third or fourth one I realized I was no longer interested in playing games, in all the sh!t that goes along with that lifestyle.

From that point on there have been a total of two women in my life. One I dated for 18 months, the other one ended up becoming my wife. Personally I would not change a thing, not even the ONS. It gave me insight into the man I wanted to become.

great post!

NickThaQuick · May 31st, 2007, 12:32 AM

:smh:

Pro_Khan · July 13th, 2007, 03:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Carlos_Hathcock

I want you all to know that I deleted my black book, no easy fucks anymore, I don't remember their phone numbers, I had them all on speed dial, if they call me I'll slowly tell them to forget about me.

I'm taking my celibacy shit seriously, until the right one comes.

Geez, man! You could've at least uploaded some copies of your hoochie archive BEFORE you deleted it.

On the other hand....
Good luck with the nookie embargo. Hope it works out well for you.

Jake15 · August 9th, 2007, 03:07 AM

damn man dont be greedy spread those around!