So one day...

kinky · September 17th, 2007, 02:11 AM

ok ok... me and this girl, Anna, we have known each other since 12th grade. We liked each other then but couldn't get together. Two years pass and we start talkin again. So within 3 months of talkin, things got really heavy. I was always there to support her. When she was about to have a lumpectomy, I was there. When her parents were bitchin her out and she couldn't deal, I was there. Anyways, it got to the point where she told me she fell in love with me. I didn't know how to respond. Eventually, I told her I felt the same. It was genuine.

Well, we kept on tellin each other that we loved one another. The only problem was, she was in MAryland, and I was in Pittsburgh (4 college). Despite the distance, it seemed that we were gettin closer. Well, during my quarter of school, I got stressed out and kinda strayed away from her. We had a couple of fights, but we usually got over it. Then one week she went away. I didn't know about it until after she left. Soon I found out that she deleted her facebook account. I thought that odd, but didn't press the issue. Then one week later, I started to really yearn for her. So I tried to contact her via text message. No response. I kept on tryin. Monday-wednesday. It was that thursday that I finally got a response from her.

She told me that she didn't love me anymore and wanted me out of her life. This was out of the blue and a sudden shock. I tried to convince her other wise that she was lying to herself. She didn't think so. I got real angry and decided to vent through sendin her many text messages. This would get my feelings across and possibly raise her phone bill up. She told me to fuck off. Go die and slit my wrist and then she changed her number. I tried to apologize but I couldn't get a hold of her. She has completely blocked me from her life.

I don't understand why females are so evil. But right now I'm in a lot of pain because I fell for this chick real hard and now it just seems like a nightmare.

**wildstang** · September 17th, 2007, 12:37 PM

well for one thing you got way over dramatic with her on the text.

47 · September 17th, 2007, 12:58 PM

Let it go dude. If you think she is lying to herself, or wrong in some way, leave her alone and let her figure it out. She can't possibly realize if she is going to miss you or not if you aren't letting her do it. Is she stupid? Perhaps not. If thats the case than she will figure things out on her own, and if you are going to be part of it again later, she'll let you know. Absolute worst thing you can do is try to force her to talk or hang with you. The line between persistence and harrassment is really fine, and it doesn't always get the girl to come back to you like it does in the movies.

kinky · September 18th, 2007, 01:00 AM

ok. I'll try to let this go, but it fucking hurts like hell.

kinky · September 18th, 2007, 09:57 AM

oh, and I also said some mean things to her in response and stuff. I feel bad

47 · September 18th, 2007, 12:48 PM

I can tell you that I know its GONNA hurt. Its gonna hurt real bad for quite a while. But it will get better. Especially if you dont keep yourself in mourning over it for too long. If you feel guilty about getting out there and meeting up with other people, just remember that she made her choice. Don't let her decide what you do from here on out. Go do your own thing. You might end up with somebody you care about just as much or probably even more, that wont put you through so much drama. Believe me, I've been there.

kinky · September 18th, 2007, 01:38 PM

thanks. I mean, I keep tellin myself that exact thing. Its just that after my last girlfriend did the same thing, this girl helped me out of that situation. Then she goes and does the same thing. I know I'm better workin on myself but damn girls and their insensitivity.

I need to work

kinky · September 29th, 2007, 12:51 PM

well, I contacted her and asked her if we could talk, and she said no and then deleted her screen name. I really don't understand girls

Pro_Khan · September 29th, 2007, 02:00 PM

Women can change moods as frequently as we change underwear. Sadly, there's no way to know what they're gonna do or say or feel next.

**ColdFX** · September 29th, 2007, 03:32 PM

Dont worry about it man, itll pass...it always does.
Honestly (Im 16 btw) I dont see a reason to be with a girl other than for sex.
They just seem to be emotional baggage. So just go out with the guys and have some fun being single.