How to approach the girl I like

Jesus_Rules · October 1st, 2007, 05:29 PM

I wanted to know if you guys could give me some advice. There is a girl I am interested in at school (in my Anatomy class). I am REALLY interested in her and I would like to approach her, but...I don't know how and, to be honest, Im kinda nervous about even talking to her period.

Lol, pretty pathetic, huh? I'm enlisted in the Marine Corp, but I am scared to talk to a girl.

Anyway, does anyone have some advice I could follow? Thanks in advance! God bless!
-C.J.

**ColdFX** · October 1st, 2007, 05:35 PM

Well theres always msn and texting, but I find that pretty lame.
I think you should just TRY and strike up a conversation with her, even if you are incincere, like..."Do you know what the homework was last night, I forgot to write it down?"
Also, if you ever do any group activities, try and move closer to her so the teacher puts you in the same group (if possible).

Hope this helps a bit
Goodluck!

Jesus_Rules · October 1st, 2007, 05:46 PM

Yeah, I was thinking about writing a letter, but that sounds lame too.

I don't know if I can just go up and strike up a conversation with her, in-sincere or not. Man, am I a wuss or what?

**ColdFX** · October 1st, 2007, 07:06 PM

You could make a fake email adress and add her on msn, then just talk to her annonomyously.
I think you should gradually try and find out if she would be interested in you, because you dont want to look like a goofball if she reads your letter to her friends, etc.

**ItalianStallion** · October 1st, 2007, 07:39 PM

search the other threads...numerous guys have said ways to go after gurls...use their advice...i dont think they r gonna come in here n repeat everything...just go for it...use their tips...read her signals, interpet them the right way n u can come out good..if u dont than u can come off bad...sumtimes just joinin in on convo n sparking a up a new topic could make an easy approach...n then next time u speak more personally rathr than school related topic like whats hw etc..gl

Gastankerdriver · October 1st, 2007, 11:45 PM

You should find out if she likes you first. Maybe learn a little about body language. There are books on this subject. Does she make eye contact with you? If not, then you can probably forget it. If she initiates eye contact with you, then you have a decent chance. She will send out a certain vibe when she is around you. If she doesn't even know you exist, then forget it.

Gastankerdriver · October 1st, 2007, 11:46 PM

One more comment. With women, it doesn't matter if you like them. All that matters is if they like you. You have to figure out how to make them like you. To be honest, they could give a crap if you like them or not....just an opinion.

**championofnight** · October 21st, 2007, 12:56 PM

Keep it simple. Small talk. Be real with yourself and think realistically.
Everybody is confident in their own way. Be comfortable with yourself, use the weapons you have, and if she does not reciprocate, then the best thing to do is to walk away.

sexy69 · November 6th, 2007, 12:01 PM

Woman can always detect when i guy has no self confidence and is intimidated. Just go for it. the problem that most of guys have is that we over think whcich causes us to chicken out on thing... especially when it comes to woman. Most woman like guys that are confident in them selves.

Never try to be some one else you are not. Have confidence in your slef that you can do this and go do it... make us proud!