Ladies.....or Gentleman

Poetickz · January 1st, 2008, 10:47 AM

ok, so the other night i was puttin on my massage game. Apparently im well known around the bar i work at for giving great back massages. so i was givin this girl im tryin to get to know in more ways than one and while im massaging her lower back she grabs my hands, wraps them around to the front of her waist, and looks up at me and smiles....what do you think this means? what kind of gesutre?

do you think it was a gesture like omg you're amazing? omg i want you?

any ideas?

CUTANDPUMPED · January 1st, 2008, 10:57 AM

i have read that if a woman even allows you to touch her and massage her in the area of her waist that she is definitely quite comfortable with you. my spidey senses tell me that she very much enjoys your massges and wants to step it up to more than just massages, WOOOOHHH TIGER! that does not mean that you should move in for the kill just yet....take your time, get to know a little bit more about each other and eventually set a date for "massage therapy" at her house...the rest is history....

Poetickz · January 1st, 2008, 11:12 AM

well i wasnt massaging her in the front waist area...just the back and we were holding hands in front of the waist...she was also slightly under the influence

**john112364** · January 2nd, 2008, 10:22 AM

Try talking to her when she's not under the influence to make sure, but IMHO I think she likes you. I held my (now) wife around the waist from behind like that on our first solo date. She said she just felt comfortable with me and like the feeling of security of having my arms around her. And my wife his not the "must have a man to be fulfilled" kind of woman.

I think this girl likes you and the alchohol lowered her inhibitions to the point where she let you hold her, whereas she may not have at another time. Ask for her number and see where it goes. Take it slow and be sure you're both on the same page. Follow it where ever you feel comfortable going.

Good luck

**gunshowbabe** · January 2nd, 2008, 10:55 AM

She likes you, that's all it means. +1 on John's response too, make sure she's sober! lol

Poetickz · January 2nd, 2008, 02:25 PM

funny that i post this, and then just so happens i end up goin to her house yesterday, she cooked dinner, we had drinks, watched movies, talked, and then i started givin her a massage again...one thing led to another and we're makin out...and she said she really likes me.

**wildstang** · January 2nd, 2008, 03:33 PM

definitely an opportunity for advancement.

**ItalianStallion** · January 10th, 2008, 01:05 AM

i like how guys come her for help...n then it just works out for em...lol...im happy to c the before the middle n after part

sexy69 · March 24th, 2008, 04:50 PM

That night she gave you the opening to kiss her and perhaps other things.

And you giving her a message at her place then making just proves my theory. I hope very thing works out for you guys!!

**cujo-1** · March 24th, 2008, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Poetickz

ok, so the other night i was puttin on my massage game. Apparently im well known around the bar i work at for giving great back massages. so i was givin this girl im tryin to get to know in more ways than one and while im massaging her lower back she grabs my hands, wraps them around to the front of her waist, and looks up at me and smiles....what do you think this means? what kind of gesutre?

do you think it was a gesture like omg you're amazing? omg i want you?

any ideas?

dont over analyze things like a member here on EF i will reference as con, in his ability to think women just sighed orgasmically when they looked at his huge arms and his 6'7" godly status! give me a break!

**wildstang** · March 24th, 2008, 05:19 PM

the only prob i see with looking 4 a date or GF in a bar is the quality of the woman may not be a keeper in my opinion. usually people who frequent bars are after a quick and easy piece when it comes to the men, and the females who frequent bars.....im sorry but my opinion of them isnt that great either not to flame any women but think about it! in my youth being in the service ive seen a lot of things a women with one guy one week and with another guy a few days later! come on is that what you really want? someone who's so easy? you want a respectable woman i guarantee you wont find her in a bar or a man 4 that matter!

MsMarvel · March 24th, 2008, 06:23 PM

As soon as I read you first post I had my answer for you. Ask her!!!
Then I kept reading, now ~ if you REALLY got to know her, then your question is answered, but now you may ask "in what terms does she like me?". If she was intoxicated, at a bar when you meet and then got to know you really well, really quick...have fun but don't count on it to last.

**illiniballfan112** · March 24th, 2008, 07:44 PM

yeah congrats...seems like it worked itself out. Dinner and making out definitely a good sign, but from my experience everyone else here is right. Bar love never seems to last too long unless you can throw the "game" on real thick. Does she work at the bar with you or is she just a patron?

**wildstang** · March 24th, 2008, 07:56 PM

another note 2 throw in in regards 2 the bar scene i have friends who met this way and even eventually married, but it didnt seem to last that long for either of them that met in this manner. majority of times one or both slipt off back into the bar scene and got intoxicated and made stupid decisions and ended up in the wrong bed because they had grown accustomed to that lifestyle out of the bars.

Poetickz · March 25th, 2008, 04:53 PM

results from that situation, fell apart end of january, i just stopped hearing from her in general.sall good, i had prepared myself, i had a feeling that it would end that way, it did, and im good and have moved on, still dosnt change the fact that she was pretty fuckin cool to hang out with though. =/

**wildstang** · March 25th, 2008, 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Poetickz

results from that situation, fell apart end of january, i just stopped hearing from her in general.sall good, i had prepared myself, i had a feeling that it would end that way, it did, and im good and have moved on, still dosnt change the fact that she was pretty fuckin cool to hang out with though. =/

my sentiments exactly. the type she was wouldve never progressed to a decent level other then some possible good sex! relationship wise, dont waste your time in the bar scene! believe me im speaking from experience and lots of wisdom in this department. best bet 2 find a keeper is non drinking social events, churchs, shit even the grocery store is better then a bar!