Need Help

**TSF21** · January 4th, 2008, 12:38 PM

I know usualy this section forum is on advice on relationships and how to make them work well this time its completly the oppisite I want get my brothers girlfriend out of my life forever shes lucifer in a bra I wouldn't have a problem with my brother dating her if she would just leave me the hell alone and just make my brothers life miserable back in 2004 I ended having to drive her butt all the from huntsville to Austin during hurricane rita which is little in comparison to all the other stuff I ended up having to do for her just because shes my brothers girlfriend so if anyone any advice on what I could do to get her to stop seeing my brother please let me know and Legaly please nothing illegal.

**tooncesthecat** · January 4th, 2008, 12:54 PM

bottom line is that you can't MAKE her stop seeing your brother. If you are unhappy with all she is asking you to do, you should have a serious talk with your brother. You can't really ask him to stop seeing her, but you need to let him know how having to cater to her needs makes you feel. You need to let him know what you ARE and AREN'T willing to do for her. If he doesn't see it your way, you need to figure out how to stick to your guns without causing a huge family rift!

**TSF21** · January 4th, 2008, 01:19 PM

I already having a serious talk with him he's as stubburn as a mule and will not listen and everytime I tell him no Im not going to do anymore favors for his stuckup girlfriend he manipulates my parents into making me do it and Ive tryed talking with them and they said I don't want to hear it talk it over with your brother so see Ive got no one backing me.

**justaguy87337** · January 4th, 2008, 01:30 PM

Just say no man. As long as you keep saying yes they will keep asking things from you. Say no a couple times with no reason attached and it will stop.

**TSF21** · January 4th, 2008, 01:49 PM

thanks for the help just needed some place to vent.

**gunshowbabe** · January 4th, 2008, 02:40 PM

ROTFLMAO!!! Lucifer in a bra!!!hahahaha-----too funny!

On a serious note... you shouldn't mess with your brother's relationship... if he wants to date her then that's his business... if she bugs you then stop helping her out and letting yourself get dragged around. It shouldn't be expected of you to go out of your way for your brother's girl, that's his job... Like Tooncesthecat said, if anything talk to your brother and let him know how you feel.

**gunshowbabe** · January 4th, 2008, 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by TSF21

I already having a serious talk with him he's as stubburn as a mule and will not listen and everytime I tell him no Im not going to do anymore favors for his stuckup girlfriend he manipulates my parents into making me do it and Ive tryed talking with them and they said I don't want to hear it talk it over with your brother so see Ive got no one backing me.

Duh, how did I miss this?

---- I don't understand why your parents would get involved by forcing you to do things and then just say they don't want to hear it.. Just curious, but what other things have happened. I can understand the hurricane trip, but what else?

**varbo** · January 4th, 2008, 03:00 PM

You could ask for sex in return for these favors as that could creep her out enough not to ask you again... but then your brother would end up hating you as well.

You could just be unreliable. Show up late, do the wrong thing. you know, be more trouble than its worth. Its not the most mature but it looks like you already tried take the high road.

**TSF21** · January 4th, 2008, 03:11 PM

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Duh, how did I miss this?

---- I don't understand why your parents would get involved by forcing you to do things and then just say they don't want to hear it.. Just curious, but what other things have happened. I can understand the hurricane trip, but what else?

Lets put it this way I could fill ateast 2 and half pages on these thread on some of the stuff shes done shes snobbish stuckup selfish and ungrateful and insults me over the phone etc etc I could understand why my brother would date her if she was actualy attractive or had great personality but she has neither.

**TSF21** · January 4th, 2008, 03:14 PM

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You could ask for sex in return for these favors as that could creep her out enough not to ask you again... but then your brother would end up hating you as well.

You could just be unreliable. Show up late, do the wrong thing. you know, be more trouble than its worth. Its not the most mature but it looks like you already tried take the high road.

Maybe your right except for the sex in return for favor what if she actualy was to say yes ewww lol shes very unactractive inside out lol so Im going to pass on that first option the second thats Ive been doing for a while it didn't work nothing seems to work on this wicked witch.

**tooncesthecat** · January 4th, 2008, 04:27 PM

Like Justaguy said, "just say no" As long as you keep doing things for her, she or your brother will keep asking. As for your parents, they must love this girl if they concern themselves with you doing things for her against your will. You should probably have a talk with them as well so they know how you feel. I know you said you talked to them already, but do it in a calm, well-thought out manner. Anticipate what they'll say and have a good counter-point which you can come back with. Remember, don't into an argument over it. Just make your case.

**TSF21** · January 4th, 2008, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by tooncesthecat

Like Justaguy said, "just say no" As long as you keep doing things for her, she or your brother will keep asking. As for your parents, they must love this girl if they concern themselves with you doing things for her against your will. You should probably have a talk with them as well so they know how you feel. I know you said you talked to them already, but do it in a calm, well-thought out manner. Anticipate what they'll say and have a good counter-point which you can come back with. Remember, don't into an argument over it. Just make your case.

My parents make me because my brother gets on the phone with and B***es and B***es till they make me do it and thanks for the advice.

**tooncesthecat** · January 4th, 2008, 05:18 PM

How soon can you move out!?

**TSF21** · January 4th, 2008, 05:33 PM

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How soon can you move out!?

My brothers about to be the one getting evicted he's living with me.

Poetickz · January 5th, 2008, 05:16 AM

just kill her....

**tooncesthecat** · January 5th, 2008, 09:09 AM

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My brothers about to be the one getting evicted he's living with me.

So let me get this right...your brother is living with YOU??? So you don't live at home? Are you 18 or older? If so, I am not sure why you are letting your parents boss you around.

**wildstang** · January 6th, 2008, 06:12 PM

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My parents make me because my brother gets on the phone with and B***es and B***es till they make me do it and thanks for the advice.

its time you set your parents and brother down and set them all fucking straight! your, your own person! not his personal slave to do as he wishes! as far as she goes tell her stupid ass to jump off a bridge or something just quite bugging me to do things for you if your so darn ungratefull and rude. get rude right back with her. your brother dosent like it....so what! is he an adult? he and your parents are acting childish. tell them to grow up! no parent should side with one sibling over the other. after all they are supposed to be mature enough to make intelligent decisions. it would appear he is the spoiled one of the family and hes gotten his way to many times. stand your ground and make them all understand!