confused

wigan · January 31st, 2008, 09:05 PM

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**tooncesthecat** · January 31st, 2008, 09:23 PM

First of all, know one thing...YOU'LL NEVER UNDERSTAND WOMEN!!!! OK, with that said, I would ask her to explain what she meant by "I wish I met you a few months later" That might shed some light on her situation. Just talk with her, but let her know up front that you aren't trying to mess with her, just tell her how you feel about her and what you are hoping to get out of a relationship. Then let her tell you the same. Lastly, come to some kind of understanding based on what was said. If she does not want a relationship, you can't force one on her. If she's not sure and you want one, pursue it. If she's just plain crazy, turn 180 degrees and run like Forest Gump!

wigan · January 31st, 2008, 09:31 PM

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**wildstang** · January 31st, 2008, 10:06 PM

theres a few flags up on this one. my guess is shes screwed up emotionally and needs time. its ok to tell here you'll be friend and if she needs someone to talk to your more then welcome if you feel that way that is. dont get to close just yet. no harm usually in just being a good friend for her and if things turn out for the better then so be it, or just keep running like forrest!, run forest run!

**ItalianStallion** · February 1st, 2008, 02:42 AM

if ur in a reltaionship now that ur happy wit dont think bout this gurl..or did i read the question wrong? gurls r confusing...sumtimes u can give them the world n they can love u but they need time to b alone because of things they need to deal wit...so fuck it..move on ur happy now dont worry bout her

Poetickz · February 1st, 2008, 03:04 AM

like toon said...you'll never understand them. and the whole thing about the rebound thing...you wouldnt want to be the rebound guy for this chick. not a good thing. i dont know why you're still thinkin about this after it happend years ago...unless you still talk to her on occasion, or you saw her recently, and if thats the case, stay away, dont fuck up somethin good that you have goin. but ya, definatley sounds like she felt she didnt deserve someone like you, but at the same time shes all fucked in the head mentally because of her past b/f.

**wil** · February 1st, 2008, 06:30 AM

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Originally Posted by tooncesthecat

First of all, know one thing...YOU'LL NEVER UNDERSTAND WOMEN!!!!!

The single most important lesson any guy needs to learn. I mean let it sink in to the bottom of your gut. I have been married for over 14 years and I still throw my hands up in bewilderment from time to time.

wigan · February 1st, 2008, 07:18 AM

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**tooncesthecat** · February 1st, 2008, 07:35 AM

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Originally Posted by wigan

she told me she was having trouble at home falling out with her parents,but i got the impression it was something more seriouse,i made my feelings clear to her and told her she could tell me anything and that i wanted to be there for her,but after a while i felt stupid like i was stalking her trying to understand what was the matter with her and phoneing and texting her,she never just completely ended it she kept changing her mind or lse i wouldnt have phoned or text at all,so i did the latter and ran like forrest lol

She sounds like she is confused (as previously mentioned) and I agree that you should just let this go. At your age, girls are sometimes (in other words, "usually") difficult to talk straight to. They will throw all sorts of mixed messages because they are unsure of what they really want and where their priorities are.

SUPREME · February 2nd, 2008, 08:54 PM

Maybe she's just a drama queen and likes to jerk guys around. I know girls who get off on that. Just stop contacting her and move on with your life.