Should I go for it?

kinky · March 17th, 2008, 02:42 PM

So last saturday I ended hanging out with these two girls. Emily and brandy. Emily has a BF and I've been friends with her for awhile. She introduced me to brandy. I hung out with them all day. I went shopping with them and talked to brandy a lot. Brandy seemed really nice and stuff. So when I had to leave on saturday, she had to sign me out from the campus, she said bye and I said bye and looked at her, she walked away then turned back again and then said goodbye shyly. Thats when I said hold on, could I have your number.

Anyways, I saw her again sunday night but it was briefly. I said hi and she said hi but she walked away like if she was in a hurry.

So now I'm like... um should I call her and ask her out. Cuz if I don't ask her out this week, I don't see the point. The quarter ends this friday and every one is goin for for a week.

What should I do?

sexy69 · March 17th, 2008, 03:02 PM

You need to go for it because if you don't you will kick your self in the end and always be wondering what would have happened. Don't be afraid of rejection at least this way will not and there will be no regrets!

**wildstang** · March 17th, 2008, 03:25 PM

just remember that a female will only usually wait so long before determining wether or not your interested then move on. if you dont at least make plans and see were that leads you can kiss this one goodbye.

**Carnitas** · March 17th, 2008, 03:59 PM

In the words that I tell my friends, Do it or I'll fucking pee on your car!

**wil** · March 17th, 2008, 04:32 PM

Yes definitely ask her out.

**pliny_2001** · March 17th, 2008, 04:57 PM

Dear god - a whole week! By then, men will barely even need women!

Allow me to act like your older brother for a moment, because it's obvious that you don't have one: Do you like her? Then hell yes you ask her out. Ask her coffee. Ask her to tennis. Ask her to lunch. Ask her to a bar. Ask her to a movie. If you met her on Saturday, 3/15, then ask her out either tonight or tomorrow. If you met her 3/11, it's an advanced maneuver, but still doable. Just give a definite date and time.

**SAINT_X** · March 17th, 2008, 05:15 PM

...going out tonight for green beers - invite her!

kinky · March 17th, 2008, 10:24 PM

well I called and she didn't pick up. time is runnin down...

I think I might just stop by her place and just ask her

**tooncesthecat** · March 17th, 2008, 10:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kinky

well I called and she didn't pick up. time is runnin down...

I think I might just stop by her place and just ask her

Hell yeah! Get aggressive...what have you go to lose? Girls like it when guys are sure of themselves. Making a bold move AND DOING SO WITH CONFIDENCE will get you the date you desire!

**ItalianStallion** · March 18th, 2008, 02:43 AM

do it..worst thing she says is no then u werent supposed to b wit her newayz...u neva kno unless u try n u rather kno u didnt cut it rather than not knowing if u had a shot/chance at all!

inthecircle · March 18th, 2008, 07:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tooncesthecat

Hell yeah! Get aggressive...what have you go to lose? Girls like it when guys are sure of themselves. Making a bold move AND DOING SO WITH CONFIDENCE will get you the date you desire!

I've seen more "average" guys with beautiful women for one reason...they are confident!!! Ladies really like a guy who carries his self with confidence...I did not say arrogance/ego. Be sure of yourself and if she says 'no'...what have you really lost??? Keep your head up no matter what. The sun with still rise tomorrow....

**torofuerte** · March 18th, 2008, 08:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tooncesthecat

Hell yeah! Get aggressive...what have you go to lose? Girls like it when guys are sure of themselves. Making a bold move AND DOING SO WITH CONFIDENCE will get you the date you desire!

Men of the world, hear what this guy tells you.

To the OP, just go for it. If you get a yes, that's great. If not, oh well, rejection is just part of the game, of life, and the more men get used to it, the less personal that they take it.

As long as it's not vulgar or just plain down creepy, even when they decline someone making a confident, bold move, women appreciate and respect that (specially if its aggressive and ingenious/classy.)

kinky · March 18th, 2008, 11:18 PM

I saw her today but didn't get a chance to ask. went to her place and no one answered. I got one more day but won't be able to take her out completely until after break

**Carnitas** · March 22nd, 2008, 06:15 PM

Any luck yet sir?

kinky · March 22nd, 2008, 08:09 PM

sorry my friend... no luck. I've called, left a message, texted, sent her a myspace message... nada. I think I'm just doomed or something. maybe it's nothing. maybe it's something.

I dunno... I feel I should just leave this one alone

**Carnitas** · March 22nd, 2008, 10:14 PM

Leave it alone dude. It was just not meant to be. If shes interested at all, then maybe she will hit you up, but by that time, hopefully you have moved on. Good luck dude.

**tooncesthecat** · March 23rd, 2008, 09:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Carnitas

Leave it alone dude. It was just not meant to be. If shes interested at all, then maybe she will hit you up, but by that time, hopefully you have moved on. Good luck dude.

Exactly!