"prob" wit the new g/f..... :-/

[Wicked X]

Hey everyone, my name is Sean and im 23.....I have a very nice gf who ive been seeing for about two months now...I previously had been in a 2.5 year relationship but that crashed pretty hard int he end....Now here's my problem...After a few weeks of being together we would hint at sex and crap like that and I was all for it. We finally get some alone time and we start playing around, some clothes come off and the problem basically is that "he" was asleep the whole time....It's gettign annoying bc ive had to make up a few retarded excuses already for us to wait...Be honest wit u all I wanna have sex wit this chick and idk y he doesnt...In my past relationship I was like a jack-rabbit and didnt stop...I find my g/f attractive and wanna be able to please her and have a good time...Im not really concerned wit my size really(lil more than 6'' erect) so i just cant figure out why..I know there'll always be a lil nervousness wit the first time wit someone new but like i said i wanna jump in heh....I know shes had previous b/f's in the past but she tells me constantly that she wants it..I have a whole weekend planned for us next weekend and I wanna make it good....What should I do....take some helper crap or just pop some vodka in me or take a hit off a bong or wtf?? its annoying bc i never thought i would run into this prob ever in my life......

[Chopper_Dave]

Dude, You're Stressing Way To Much. So What If You Don't Have " Blue Steel " When The Games Begin? Are You Telling Us Your New G/f Isn't " Helping Out" So To Speak? If She Isn't, Find A Way To Get Her More Involved In The " Stiffening Process ", That's What For-play Is All About.

[A1food4U]

Dude, your joking right?

You've planned a romantic weekend, you know the girl is receptive, just relax and let nature do its thing. The only thing stopping you is in your head!!!!RELAX, It's not quantum physics, just let it happen. Worry and anxiety are "little petey's" enemies..

[tooncesthecat]

Stop worrying about the sex and just get into her! If she's attractive to you, you'll get it going without thinking about it. When you go for it the next time, lay her down, worship every inch of her nakedness and think how lucky you are to be doing this. She'll love it and when you're ready to go, you'll be more than ready!

[Carnitas]

Like everyone else keeps saying, just relax, you are probably nervous because shes a new girl in your life, and you are worried you won't be able to satisfy her. Trust me, if she cares about you and you the same about her, you will be able to. If you are really worried, you could always take some horny goatweed right before, but only as a last resort my friend.

[Wicked X]

well yea i know im a lil nervous but like i know what im doing and all idk y im still like this..she seems to be open to things so ill explore a lil more wit the four-play and try that but i really wanna get the ball rolling and return to my old self heh ......also wtf is horny goat weed???

[Chopper_Dave]

Originally Posted by wicked X

......also Wtf Is Horny Goat Weed???

Over The Counter Low-grade Herbal Viagra Substitute = Truck Stop Speed

[inthecircle]

You can buy it in a lot of different stores and online.

[Wicked X]

Originally Posted by inthecircle

You can buy it in a lot of different stores and online.

omfg lmao is that really what it looks like...........haha....idk mb i should get some tho :-/

[ItalianStallion]

that shit doesn work..i mean it doesnt look like it would work.. ...seriously tho...ive neva had the problem of "standing at attention"just because it doesnt start till shes actually doin sumtin thats not rly a problem..just go 1st n im sure she'll reciprocate allowing time to adequatly adjust

[wil]

puts on broken record

As others have said... don't be stressed. Don't think about it or you will psyche yourself and you "little buddy" out.

[wildstang]

quit thinking about it so much and just let nature take its course. your fretting over this way 2 much and thats what the prob is. your mind. am i gonna get hard?, am i gonna be good 4 her?, am i.............you get the picture.

[Wicked X]

well thnx everyone...we'll see how next weekend goes i guess....ill try not to think of anything and just go wit the flow of things.....

[joey9]

Originally Posted by Wicked X

she seems to be open to things so ill explore a lil more wit the four-play and try that but

But?

Many women are REALLY into foreplay (it's spelled like "be-fore" rather than "four" because that's how they like it-- before the cock goes in). Women often take longer to get warmed up than men do and that can be a good thing when you learn to appreciate it. Even women that seem already warmed up can get even more warmed up with the right kind of attention, which then makes everything else better.

So try spending a long time on the foreplay. Just plan to spend forever on it. Everything else will take care of itself. If you're freaked out and nervous then you haven't done enough foreplay and somebody is trying to rush things. Relax and slow down. Enjoy the journey.

Rather than "popping some vodka", maybe savor some good wine or a fine whiskey for a change? Something with character and nuance. Women are sensual creatures who don't like to rush sex, especially as they get older and learn what they want. We men should allow ourselves to learn from them.

Maybe exchange a short massage first? That might help everyone relax.

Learn how to be sensual. Learn to enjoy the sense of touch and all the other senses. Slow down and enjoy life. As you get older it goes by faster.

Rather than trying to impress her with how your cock looks, try to really give her pleasure WITHOUT your cock first. Focus on her needs and you won't have time to worry about yourself. Then ask her to give your cock some attention. If she's not willing to do that then maybe you're with the wrong person?

And some women are just incredibly good at giving head. Oh my goodness.

There's also such a thing as chemistry. Some couples have more of it, some have less. Good to find out before you make any long-term plans.