approaching a girl in the gym

**theatrain** · April 24th, 2009, 09:21 PM

How do u do it?

There's a really good lookin girl @ my gym. .
She notices me, our eyes make contact a lot does that make sense?
Anyone know what I'm talkin about?

Well I am in the position where I don't know if she's lookin at me
Like (he's cute) or like (why the hell is he looking at me)

And I usually have no problem talkin to girls, but the gym is a challenging place.
I know some ppl are strictly there to workout and want no interuptions, plus a lot of the time she has headphones on.

**tooncesthecat** · April 24th, 2009, 10:00 PM

Don't pull a CON and think too much about it...LOL! Seriously, just go up and introduce yourself. A good clue to whether or not she's worth your time is how she responds to a respectful approach and some intelligent and fun talk!

**joker13** · April 24th, 2009, 10:10 PM

And hit her up before or after her workout. So if she doesn't like being interrupted then you won't be that guy. No one wants to be that guy.

**theatrain** · April 24th, 2009, 10:42 PM

Lol! Oh no, not a CON.

I never have problems talkin 2 girls, but the gym is a challenging situation that's all. There's gotta be the right timing (before or after the workout ) cause like u said no1 wants to be that guy.

And its not just about this paricular girl, its about girls in general at the gym. To me its an awkward situation approaching girls @ the gym and I figure some1 out there has got a way of doing it comfortably.

Once in the past I saw a cute girl on the leg ext machine texting on her phone and I asked if that was a new workout (texting) she laughed and we been friends ever since.

**gYmgIrL** · April 25th, 2009, 12:29 AM

CUTE!!!

One of my friends in the gym a man tried to talk to, he offered the help her get the weights on the squat bar thing.

haha

she politely said no thanks and just kept working out

dont offer to help with weights, that works with shopping and stuff, but not weights! haha

I like the phone texting thing, that's adorable

**JimmymonFreddy** · April 25th, 2009, 01:42 AM

look her deep in the eye an ask "do you work out?" lol

just kidding man

I guess it wouldn't hurt to go up to her and try to strike up a simple conversion, if you can

**ItalianStallion** · April 25th, 2009, 03:34 AM

i say keep it simple...once u caught each others eye repeatidly than theres a lil connection..if u ever see her sumwhere else it'll be easy to go talk to her...now at the gym id recomend just goin up to her one day n say sumtin like..i always see u around here n just wanted to say hello my name is theatrain...

SUPREME · April 25th, 2009, 05:43 AM

Listen....Just ask for her name, and get it over with. You're thinking too much. And what's all this "before or after" workout mumbo jumbo?

"Hi..my name is <name> I know you're working out and I don't want to bother you, but I just had to come over and introduce myself. What's your name?"

She gives you her name and then you ask if you could chat it up with her after her workout.

**sucher67** · April 25th, 2009, 08:27 AM

You could give a her a genuine compliment (but only if it is true), like, "nice delts. How do you train them?" If finding someone who likes the gym is important to both of you, then you already have something in common.

**A1food4U** · April 25th, 2009, 12:09 PM

Not to hi jack the thread, but i miss CON. I really miss Con in a "is it just my self loathing at the way i feel when i look at her or is this really the relationship of her dreams, God I'm Hot" sort of way. . .LOL

Anyway, those that say don't be bothersome during the work out are I believe are on cue. Does the gym have a smoothie or healthy cafe sort of place attached. Be Smooth, Buy Her a Smoothie!!!

The headset may be an in. ask her the brand, your considering a purchase, how does shee like it yadda ya ydda ya like that. . .

**theatrain** · April 25th, 2009, 04:52 PM

well she does make orgasmic noises every time i walk by
and i have been told i am nothing short of perfection. . .
a "god" i guess you could say. . .

LMAO!!! I miss him too man.

The funniest thing about that is when he posted his progress pictures. .

I'm not making fun of his weight, appearance or anything like that . Any overweight person who asks for advice I will give them my respectful opinion, but with CON he was so damn narcissistic and he turned out to be like 70lbs overweight. . .

Back to the original post. . . No there is no smoothie shop or anything like that in my gym and again. . this post isn't about 1 particular girl, I'm curious as to good ways to approach women in the gym in general. .the 1 girl is just used as a current example.

I go back and forth between 2 gyms (Depending on who im working out with) and the gym is a place that i've never had much luck approaching girls. . there just never is good timing.

**wil** · April 25th, 2009, 06:11 PM

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Originally Posted by theatrain

well she does make orgasmic noises every time i walk by.

DUDE!!! YOU'RE IN!!!!

Say hello to her sometime.

But also keep in mind that the only way to bag a classy lady is to give her two tickets to the gun show... and see if she likes the goods.

katz7479 · April 25th, 2009, 08:04 PM

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Originally Posted by theatrain

well she does make orgasmic noises every time i walk by
and i have been told i am nothing short of perfection. . .
a "god" i guess you could say. . .

LMAO!!! I miss him too man.

The funniest thing about that is when he posted his progress pictures. .

I'm not making fun of his weight, appearance or anything like that . Any overweight person who asks for advice I will give them my respectful opinion, but with CON he was so damn narcissistic and he turned out to be like 70lbs overweight. . .

Back to the original post. . . No there is no smoothie shop or anything like that in my gym and again. . this post isn't about 1 particular girl, I'm curious as to good ways to approach women in the gym in general. .the 1 girl is just used as a current example.

I go back and forth between 2 gyms (Depending on who im working out with) and the gym is a place that i've never had much luck approaching girls. . there just never is good timing.

i missed cons progess pictures i must find them hahahaaha

and dude its simple dont be that guy.

but u could try to flirt at the water fountain or after or before or if she isnt wearing headphoens on ellpitcal or bike or something. or u coudl do what i do...................put 450 on the bench and penis lift it hahahaha

**mavgrad99** · April 26th, 2009, 01:58 AM

I never did pick up girls at the gym, I actually met my wife at a concert festival and the rest is history. if you do have to pick up a girl at the gym, try the line... can I walk you to your car? especially if its late at night. Theres a lot of weirdo's out there and Im not that guy, just simply walk her to her car and you are done with it, if she refuses, you are done with it, more than likely she will take you up on your offer and the small talk will ensue. if not, oh well, but above all else, BE YOURSELF!

**orientalkid** · April 26th, 2009, 08:44 AM

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Don't pull a CON and think too much about it...LOL

CON, I have almost forgotten him lol. Anyway u could approach her after she finished her workout (and when u have finsihed urs), and then maybe u can commend on her workout and hit it off from there...

**orientalkid** · April 26th, 2009, 08:49 AM

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The headset may be an in. ask her the brand, your considering a purchase, how does shee like it yadda ya ydda ya like that. . .
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thats a good one

**wildstang** · April 28th, 2009, 12:08 PM

p.m. CON maybe he's still monitoring the sight!!!!!!!!! lmfao

**theatrain** · April 28th, 2009, 01:03 PM

I'm not that experienced yet dude, I'm just a beginner, his information would go right over my head.

Funny thing is, he still does monitor the site.

n10city · April 28th, 2009, 10:32 PM

I never thought picking up girls whilst covered in sweat very ideal. But I sweat profusely, literally... buckets. So the gym isn't exactly my hot spot. 'Hi' always works.

On a side note, I had a strange vision of you two reaching for the same 10lb plate at the same time. Like Lady and the Tramp with BICEPS!

katz7479 · April 28th, 2009, 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by n10city

I never thought picking up girls whilst covered in sweat very ideal. But I sweat profusely, literally... buckets. So the gym isn't exactly my hot spot. 'Hi' always works.

On a side note, I had a strange vision of you two reaching for the same 10lb plate at the same time. Like Lady and the Tramp with BICEPS!

hahaha lmao