Welcome to EF gettingmarried. By the way, are you what your name suggests? There's another member on this forum who trying to lose weight for his wedding day. You can find his story here:
My diet plan-for my wedding
Regarding your question, the best and safest way to lose that belly is through exercise and clean eating.
The exercise just has to be something that makes you sweat and work. Eating clean means eating fresh natural foods, and staying away from processed junk. You can find some useful information for that department by visiting these other forums:
http://www.extremefitness.com/forum/...isplay.php?f=5
Also, can read and watch how this woman forced herself to lose weight for a fitness competition . . . by using her kids as weight resistance! You can read the story here:
http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2006/...n1176846.shtml
To watch the video, you'll need Real Player 10.5.