*laughs* man that would be so awesome! no need for years of blood sweat and tears (mainly tears :P) just shine a light on your tummy!!!!
hehehe
Thanks Logan for saying i have a nice tummy! To be honest, back when i had no idea there were figure-shaped ladies out there, I decided I was tired of having a boring tummy and wanted a 6 pack, and thats what started my whole training everything! but i started as a thin athletic person and its taken me almost a year and a half to get the ab definition I have. And a year and a half isnt even that long in the big scheme of things, especially considering I still have a long way to go!!
I guess what I'm trying to say it its going to take a while. One of the most annoying things about all of this fitness stuff is that it all takes persistence and time, which is one of the main reason its so hard. From what you said in your PM, your wife seems to be eating really well! Which is awesome. If we wanted to tweak the diet anymore then I'd need you to be a little more specific so we can work out her calories in versus out but considering she's eating so clean im sure its not a problem

We can do that in a PM if she's worried about everyone knowing her everythings
as for the loose skin, that usually goes back by itself over time. The poor buggar just got stretched a million miles long! Tell her to give herself a break :P If you go to the chemist and explain the situation they can give you oils and stuff to bring back the eloasticity faster. That and rubbing oil on yourself is nice
How often does she do the cardio? And how hard does she do it? The fat loss is going to be all about the calories in versus out which is diet and cardio and muscle mass, but like we mentioned before she cant push herself, and doing it too fast just means it wont stay off anyway! But we can work out ways to make all the things she is trying work a bit more efficiently
As for ab workouts, a very important thing to remember is to not over work them! When you desperately want abs (like me :P) its easy to obsess and do nothing but abs, but just like everything else they need their rest time. So if you're doing a sit up, and you feel the burn straight away cause they're still sore from before then it might be time to rest up
I do 2 days a week of abs! 1 weighted and one non weighted in 30 minute bits with little to no rest between. Well a little more on weighted day :P
Non weighted: Grab a bench! for some reason (i think cause you have to stabalize?) doing abs on a bench works better and i think might be how come my obliques are prominent. On the bench i get a medicine ball and do this:
10 x leg raises
10 x knee raises
10 x bring the ball from over your head over your knees crunch thingies (haha im so good with names :P)
10 x put the ball between your legs and alternate elbows touching the ball (also works out the inside leg muscle which is hawt :P)
10 x pulse crunch thingies with the ball still there
10 x bicycle kicks
10 x hanging leg raises
repeat until you die
Its a lot, and it hurts :P constantly changing the ab thingy you do stops it from being boring and the fact that theres only 10 each helps push you to finish each mini-set
On weighted abs day i have 10 kg leg weights, lie on the floor and do leg raises with them. oh the pain but lower abs are so hard to see!!
i also hook my legs to cable machine and do knee raises that way
and that thing with cables where you pull down on the rope on your knees and crunch.... cant remember what thats called :P
I also do 3 sets of failure on the decline bench holding a dumbell. Its hard not to cheat and use your legs but if you can concertrate on the crunch it leaves you sore for years
I'll have to find you a link
Another thing i do which i think really really helps is tense them. Always tense them through cardio and any weight training. I got no idea why that helps but i got my biggest improvements from that! Flexing them afterwards helps too
Flexing everything all the time always helps though :P hehehehheh
I hope that helps a little! if you need me to be more specific on anything let me know!